upstream: one absolute per-query budget across queueing and failover

waiting for a slot now spends the query budget; truncated attempts that
expire fault the budget, not the upstream, and are never attributed.
admission sweeps in priority order before blocking. forward zones spend
read_timeout_ms once across udp, truncation and tcp. adds
nxdns_upstream_budget_exhausted_total and a 64-upstream validation limit.

src/server/handler.zig

@@ -676,7 +676,10 @@ const Context = struct {
         const answer = client.exchange(ctx.io, ctx.query, ctx.response_buf) catch |err| {
             return switch (transport.group(err)) {
                 .cancellation => .drop,
-                .peer_fault, .local_resource => ctx.servFail(),
+                // A budget that ran out is SERVFAIL like any other failure: no
+                // rcode says "I gave up in time". It is not logged per query —
+                // `nxdns_upstream_budget_exhausted_total` is the record.
+                .peer_fault, .local_resource, .budget_exhausted => ctx.servFail(),
             };
         };
 
@@ -737,7 +740,13 @@ const Context = struct {
                 // the client is about to lose the socket anyway; the listener's
                 // own counters record the abandoned datagram.
                 .cancellation => return .drop,
-                .peer_fault, .local_resource => return ctx.servFail(),
+                // A budget that ran out is SERVFAIL like any other failure: no
+                // rcode says "I gave up in time". It is not logged per query —
+                // `nxdns_upstream_budget_exhausted_total` is the record — and
+                // the pool leaves `selected` unchanged, so the row still names
+                // the last attributable endpoint if there was one, and names
+                // none only when no attributable attempt happened.
+                .peer_fault, .local_resource, .budget_exhausted => return ctx.servFail(),
             };
         };
         bump(&ctx.handler.stats.queries);

src/server/resolver_integration_test.zig

@@ -176,7 +176,7 @@ const EntryStorage = struct {
             .priority = priority,
             .enabled = true,
             .health = .init,
-            .sem = .{ .permits = self.slots.len },
+            .admission = .{ .permits = self.slots.len },
             .reuse_recoveries = &self.recoveries,
         };
     }